You don’t have to be unique–you just have to be you! We have been conditioned to constantly think about the things we need to change about ourselves or make better to achieve success. We have all heard of the 80/20 rule, but what about the 97/3 rule? That’s where you concentrate 97 percent more of your time on the 3 percent that is negative, not going well, or what we feel should be changed. Likewise, you spend 3 percent less on the 97 percent that is going really well. How do we stop trying to fix our weaknesses and redirect our preoccupation with the negative moments to more positive points? Read more.